Are we doing something wrong ?

Ive not attacked anyone on here...not as far as im aware of. I put up posts I think are good and they get slated for no good reason...hence no Topics or Posts.

For instance someone on here sent Kirk a pm...to tell him not to reply to my post...they hate Kirk...or so they say so whats going on there.

The topic I put up about Heath Ledger and the so called church that thought it would be a good idea to picket his funeral...one person took it personally...that cant be...everyone hates them.

As for being straight and to the point...ive not done that for a long time. And the other forums I go on are quite different from this one...and the way u get treated is too.

Yes I like a natter with ...the boys...but there is nothing wrong with that is there...but yes there is apparently so it seems.

If I get an apology...then i'll post...if I dont...why should I. I have better things to do than apologize for my posts...which are usually quite popular...and always from the heart.
Sophie.

come back girl...i havent been here long but i miss ya! xxxxxxxxxxx

I have to say...if youre Essie...refering to the fat elvis topic/post...I wasnt the only one who felt that way. I felt it was dis respectful to Elvis...that as how it was meant to come across.
Sophs. x You really think id say it to the mans face to hurt him...no, but if i thought he was takin the mick...making fun of elvis and expoliting him, then yes I would.

Sophie, i realy like you, and there are a lot of things that you make me laugh of, realy you do!
I also like the way you dare people!
I think that is a fantastic quality that you have.

Yes, the way you put him kinda down, like that he keep eating muffins (or what ever it was) and that you hate fat ETA's, that was to me kinda rude.
Maybe it says more about me, then it dos about you, i dont know that, but its like you where putting big people down, and not all big people can help it.
I must agree, he could had wear something else, but if he loves to sing Elvis songs...

I have seen youre comments on an ETA 'are you comming from Mars??!!'
(Not sure, but i think it was to Jason)
And also to Charmaine i have seen you slash out.

And also the time that someone had comment something about a You Tube clip from a young ETA.
Then you went and told him that he was to old to sing, and askt him what he acheaved in life.
That i dissagreed with too..
I thought it was all pretty hurtfull.
It's not good to hurt others, you see.
You are probebly not awaire of sometimes that some comments could be hurting.
Probebly you dont do it delibertly.
(well, i hope not, anyway)


But like i sayd, that is my opinion.
For the rest, i do like youre posts!
Just not the hurtfull once.

Ok Sophie

We do like you and your posts but i have to say i'm a little peeved, you have a break from here then you return on the attack, i'm also insulted by some of your Big ETA comments.

I'm a big lad but i never used to be i'm 6ft2 and used to be 12.5 stone , i used to go to the Gym 3 times a week plus running and swimming etc , what went wrong ? I got Cancer in my back ok its all gone now but has left my lower back very weak, i only have to cough or sit wrongly and i put my back out , in short exercise is virtually impossible. I love Elvis and i pay tribute to him, but i'm big does that make my tribute any less ? No it doesn't and as a result i get repeat booking's. Why should i stop when i bring enjoyment to others and i raise loads of money for differnt charitys ?
Just because you have this Ideal ETA , Also your on the attack again making other members of this forum feel uncomfortable. I think what what i'm trying to get accross you do put some fun posts up and thats great but then you spoil it by attacking others. Essie hit the nail on the head , so come on sophie foget the hassle and lets have some fun posts.

Paul.

I have to agree with both Essie and Paul...
I know tons of ETA's in both the USA and Canada and a good majority of them
that have some weight of them, and many of them up around 225lbs and more
are all a result of health issues.... and all of them do a genuine and most
incredible tribute to Elvis memory and are also genuine Elvis fans...

So the best way to put it Sophie.... to not cast /judgment and/or a stone upon
these ETA's and their weight unless you have walked a million miles in their
shoes...

As for threads that I post and you do not like and/or agree with - bypass it
or comment me in a PM and not publicly for the thrill of getting a reaction out
of me or making me feel uncomfortable in the forum.... I love this place and
have come to make some really good friends in here and will not be run off this
site and as the old saying goes .... "what goes around comes around"....

So last but not least... hopefully now that a few of us have had our say, we have given
you food for though...

Respectfully,
Charmaine

Omg!!! Essie made a comment...she also made one about you. As for the fat Elvis topic...I wasnt the only one who posted on it...I wont say who else, thats not right. Oh...Charmaine...u forgive me...are u havin a laugh or what. Stay out of my face...thats all I ask u to do.

As for the he's too old to be an eta...thats been asked on here quite a few times...and not by me either. Yes I think eta's should stop when Elvis did. I think Lorna asked that question.

Or am I not allowed to answer...as for being over weight...there's chubby...and theres the other...that eta was the other. Remember I wasnt the only one.

Charmaine...I find your pm's rude agressive and stupid...which is why I didnt reply to them. Infact...they were very rude...So im not really bothered what u have to say, as long as I get no more pm's from you and you stay away from me.

If youd stayed away till july as u said u would...that would have been fine...but Paul...it was she who came back again...and purely because of me. To me I see that as a form of bullying...and how old is she...old enough to know better.
Sophie.

And I do think its a shame that lots of guys have left to go on other forums. As for feelin welcome...Char...I feel as welcome as the black death on here. Thank You. Paul n Lorna...I feel for u I really do.

Good Luck! X

Ive been in bed with flu...so have only just been able to reply to anything on here. I shall put up a Topic about Elvis...and see what happens.

Bless Me. Snotty Sophie. x

Awww good morning Soph, not seen you on this early in a while



You are both very important, strong women of this forum and Im glad to see you are both going to do your own thing! Yey!

Good Morning Lorna...yeah full of good old snotty stuff today!!! And I do think its best like u say to do our own thing...thanks for everyones pm's...sweet of u.

Free Hugs,
Sophs. xx

TCBinaflash wrote:

Charmaine and Sophie
Lets get to the nitty gritty here shall we its very plain to see you two will never be friends and im sure your not on each other xmas card list but she said this she did that is not getting anywhere, so Sophie and Charmaine why not just avoid each others posts Sophie some of your tag lines are a little at times very risky to say the least but thats you, so please again i know this is a public forum so sophie continue with your topics and Charmaine you do the same but please refrain from responding to each other topics, if we the Mods feel the topic is racist or insulting anyway then we will waste no time in deleting the thread as we have always done so so please stop this bickering now and today is a brand new day so lets start again otherwise i will lock this thread ok

Here we are...she was asked nicely to stay away...I did...I am...and I always will. I expect her to do the same. SOPHIE.